Role play, humiliation & feminisation.

Psychological domination is about control rather than sensation. The mistress takes charge of the story, the rules and the words, and you give up the right to decide what happens next. Done well it is the most personal kind of session, because it is built from your own ideas.

Role play gives the scene a frame: a setting, a reason and a relationship. Humiliation and feminisation work on how you see yourself for an hour. Neither needs any physical intensity at all, though both combine easily with discipline or restraint.

What it can include

Role play

Teacher and pupil, boss and employee, interrogator and captive: a scene with a setting, a costume and a story you outline beforehand.

Humiliation

Verbal and situational humiliation, pitched exactly to the words and themes you list as welcome, and none of those you rule out.

Objectification

Being treated as furniture, an ornament or a tool for the length of the scene: stillness and service rather than conversation.

Feminisation

From lingerie and make-up to posture, voice and manners. Bring your own clothes, or ask what we can provide.

Forced bi

A fantasy explored through role play and dialogue only. No other person takes part.

Pet play / dehumanisation

Collar, lead and rules: taking on the role of a pet and being trained, with clear words for when to step out of it.

Financial domination (findom)

Control over spending and tribute, inside a budget agreed in advance. It has its own page. Read about findom.

What to tell us when you book

• The scenario or characters you have in mind, even if it is only a fragment.
• Words, names and themes that work for you, and any that are off limits.
• For feminisation: your sizes, and whether you will bring clothes.
• Whether you want the scene to stay in character until the end.

Safety

Verbal play can reach places physical play doesn't. Words that are off limits stay off limits, and aftercare includes stepping out of the role together before you leave. Read the rules for how consent and safewords work in every session.